Why is it that you should ultimately always want to have the women that you’re interacting with reacting to you?
Why is it that you should ultimately always want to be be at the CAUSE in the interaction and not at the EFFECT?
Why is it that YOU can’t be the one who’s reacting to THEM?
Well…
Let me answer these questions with another question:
WHAT DO WOMEN ULTIMATELY NEED TO KNOW IN ORDER TO SLEEP WITH YOU?
WHAT DO THEY WANT TO KNOW WHEN YOU APPROACH THEM?
They want to know who you are and what you’re about.
That is all that they’re thinking.
That’s it!
In order for her to be willing to sleep with you she’s going to want to know who you are before hand.
She wants to know what type of person you are.
Are you someone who is going to add value to her life or to her social situation?
Is your reality going to inspire her with good emotions?
Yes or no?
And in order for her to get to know all of this, she’s going to have to experience you as a person.
And the only way for them to experience you is for them to be reacting to you.
There is no other way.
She’s never going to get to really know who you are off of any kind of material facts or content. She’s going to get to really know who you are off of the vibe that you’re putting out and off of the general vibe of the interaction that you’re having.
She’s ultimately going to get to know who you are, only by emotionally reacting off of you.
If she’s not reacting to you, she’s not getting to know you.
And if she’s not getting to know you, she is not going to want to sleep with you.
The women that you’re interacting with should always be reacting to you.
I’ve always found that the concept of having girls reacting to you is a little abstract and confusing.
How do you make sure she’s the one reacting? And how do you turn the situation around if you think she’s not?
Btw thanks for all your great material. It’s helping me a lot to stay motivated on my current 30 day challenge after your Hotseat in London!
“Are you someone who is going to add value to her life or to her social situation?”
Is this accurate? the way i see it, women want to work for a man and be part of his “tribe”
Finally, this problem of “not being reaction seeking” and “having her react to you” has been sorted out.
The money line: If she doesn’t get to know you, she won’t sleep with you. To get to know you, she has to be reacting to you…
I believe this will be cool because if she’s reacting it’s because you’re expressing yourself.
THANKS. Julien.
fuck yea man. this is powerful. pure power man. that’s what makes it work… what kind of woman will fuck a man who doesn’t lead with power… who doesn’t wear his balls? hah.