I just arrived at my hometown here in the French part of Switzerland…
And it feels great to finally be able to really relax and recuperate for next few days before heading over to Paris this weekend where I’ll be doing the Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp there in FRENCH!
So if you’re located in France and if you’re interested in hearing about some of the latest RSD principles explained to you in French then I would highly recommend that you come and that you check out this unique opportunity!
My next dates for Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp are going to be…
April 5 – 7, 2012: Paris, France (in French)
April 19 – 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Ozzie)
April 26 – 28, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark (taught with Ozzie)
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
What are some of the most important traits that are going to distinguish if someone is going to be successful in this area of their life or not?
What are some of the most important mental shifts that someone is ultimately going to have to make in order to achieve this kind of success in their life?
What does it really take for someone to make that DEEP IDENTITY LEVEL CHANGE?
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED AT THE MUNICH FREE TOUR A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO THAT REVEALS SOME OF THE TOP INNER GAME CONCEPTS THAT I COULDN’T LIVE WITHOUT:
Trust in the process…
I cannot ever stress this out enough.
If you don’t have 100% faith and trust in the process that you’re going to have to continuously undertake in order to achieve any kind of success in this area of your life then I can already tell you ahead of time that you will unfortunately not succeed in this.
If I had to pick one of the main traits that I had going for me when I first started getting into all of this a little over five years ago back in 2007, is that there was no doubt in my mind that I would not succeed in this area of my life, at all.
I had 100% faith and trust in the process.
Ask yourself, how else are you ever going to self-actualize yourself and be successful with women in general?
Is there really any other way to go about this other than actually going out and interacting with women?
The answer is no.
There is no other way to get good at this!
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN OTHER THAN BY GOING OUT AND INTERACTING WITH THEM.
And I think that making this realization and constantly reminding yourself of it is one of the most important things that you could ever do for yourself if you’re serious about getting this area of your life handled.
Because ultimately, you’re never going to want to change who you are as a person.
Ask yourself, do you really want to have to make that Deep Identity Level Change in order to be successful with women in general?
Do you really want to have to change who you are as a person as well as some of the core beliefs that you’ve had your entire life in order to be successful with women in general?
Most of the people that you know might probably say yes to this, but in reality they would just prefer remain exactly the same as they are right now at this moment in time.
You’re never really going to want to change who you are.
There are too many mental attachments to the current identity that you’ve already taken on for the greater part of your life. And you’re not going to want to let all of that go and realize that you could have just been doing things differently from the very start.
Making that Deep Identity Level Change is one of the hardest things that anyone could ever achieve for themselves.
This is something that I’ll also constantly repeat over and over again to the people that I work with during the Live Programs that I run.
Changing your own identity as a person on a fundamental level is something that is nearly impossible!
What you’re trying to achieve here is probably harder than anything else you’ve ever achieved in your entire life.
It’s harder than starting to eat healthy and losing weight, for example.
It’s harder than regularly going to the gym.
It’s harder than taking on any kind of new habit.
And why is that?
Because changing who you are is ultimately admitting that who you have been for the better part of your life has not been the best “you” that you could have been and doing this is also something that requires a lot of will power that unfortunately most people haven’t cultivated throughout their lives.
There are many ways that you can go about achieving this as of right now and some of them are actually explained to you in the video here above.
But ultimately I would personally say that the main reason most people have such a hard time achieving any kind of real success in this area of their lives is because they don’t have that trust in the process that is required from them.
All throughout this journey, your mind is going to try to find different kinds of mental rationalizations about why you shouldn’t change your current identity in order to take on a new one.
You have to realize that you’re literally going to think of every single reason why you shouldn’t go through all of this and most of those reasons will actually probably make complete sense to you at that moment in time as well.
As a side note, this is also why there are so many people that get into this and then change their minds and start despising it, and then loving it again…
It’s their mind switching from being focused on the process and evolving their identity as a person and from being unfocused and rationalizing every single reason why they shouldn’t do it.
TRUST IN THE PROCESS, THERE IS NO OTHER WAY.