How To Create Massive Amounts Of Drama To Make Women Fall Psychotically In Love With You!


What’s up!

I’ve just successfully finished my very last Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp with Alexander~ here in Sydney, Australia…

And I really have to say that this part of my tour has been quite a blast.

If you ever have the opportunity to come and visit Australia, then “trust me” you will not regret it! ;]

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

June 14 – 16, 2012: Auckland, New Zealand
June 21 – 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 28 – 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 5 – 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico / /

On that note, what I’m very excited to finally be able to share with you today is a topic that fits into the “grey zone” of success with women in general.


And it’s something that I’ve also hesitated putting out for quite a while as it’s something that I knew was going to be misinterpreted in many ways and by a lot of people as you’ve probably already seen here on the RSDNATION forums… ;]


So, the very first thing that I would like to start off by saying in this article and that you should constantly be keeping in mind while reading it, is that women get turned on differently than men.

Women are aroused by different things than men!

Women are constantly pinging off of the environment that’s around them and are more focused on external stimulus as opposed to men who are mostly pinging off of themselves and are more focused on internal fulfillment.

I’m sure that you’ve already heard by now that:


(Cf. Tyler in the Blueprint Decoded)

Women are more focused on the general vibe of the interaction than the actual material context that men tend to focus on instead.

They’re more in touch with all of the emotions that they’re feeling all throughout the interaction than the logic behind it.

They’re more concerned about what’s being subcommunicated emotionally than by what’s being communicated logically.

A social interaction is a completely different experience for a woman than it is for a man.

Whenever a man approaches and starts interacting with a woman, she’s ultimately going to be focused on what’s being subcommunicated and is going to base her own judgment on that in order to determine if he’s someone who adds value to her current situation or not.

Whenever a man approaches and starts interacting with a woman that is all that she is going to be focused on, at all times.

“Is he a man who offers value or is he a man who takes value?”



Value is ultimately what gets the girl.

It’s what causes attraction.

And for the most part, value is a combination of these three things: survival, reproduction and GOOD EMOTIONS.

It’s anything that will help you survive.

It’s anything that will help you have kids and it’s anything that will help your kids survive.

And beyond that, it’s anything that will give you GOOD EMOTIONS.

That’s it!

In order to really be a man who offers value as opposed to being a man who takes value you have to ultimately have all of the core fundamentals of game dialed down to the queue in order to satisfy the very old school “survival and reproduction” criteria and on top of that, you have to ultimately be able to provide her with any kind of range of emotion, that’s positive overall.

And the topic that I would like to introduce to you today is something that goes hand in hand with this third criterion:


Now before I go any further in this article, what you still have to remember is that this means that you still have to apply all of the core fundamentals of game in order to satisfy the first two criteria, survival and reproduction, in order to replicate this in a way that offers value.

Don’t be coming from the frame of mind of thinking that this is something that you can just use on it’s own as a substitute for everything else.


You still have to apply all of the other core principles that we advocate here on RSDNATION.

There is no other way around that. ;]

Now when you take the time to think about good emotions, I would like you to think about it more in terms of strong emotions that are positive overall.

That’s what offers value to her.

Take a look at the world that’s around you, or even at the way that most human beings interact with each other or behave in general…

Take a look at any type of typical man to woman type of interaction or at the way that most men approach women…

Even take a look at the people that you know who are in relationships…

…from an emotional standpoint, it’s BORING!

The world that’s around you is emotionally bland.

And it’s actually hard for women to actually experience anything at all!

And this is exactly what I advocate here in this article:


From a woman’s standpoint, how much more could you ever ask for?

How much better could it ever get for her?

Now, I know that a lot of guys are quickly going to jump to the “relationship” conclusion but that’s completely beside the point.

Making the decision to actually start a relationship with someone is your own personal choice if you feel that the two of you have chemistry together and if you feel that the two of you really get along after a certain period of time.

What I’m advocating here is adding a certain frame to the interaction at hand in order to make her experience much more emotional and enjoyable on all levels.

It’s about spicing up the interaction at hand, not using this as an alternative to starting a relationship with her.

What I’m advocating here is offering value by being a SEXWORTHY GUY and then on top of that, offering her an emotionally driven ROLE-PLAY that she can fully let herself fall into without any repercussions whatsoever because deep down inside, she knows that you don’t truly mean it as you’re someone who’s of course FREE FROM ALL OUTCOME.

You’re basically offering her a chance to be the lead in the Disney fantasy that she’s always dreamed of being in.

You’re offering her a chance to play the role of the princess that she’s always wanted to play without all of the complications and repercussions that usually tend to come along with it.

And as I previously mentioned here above, the way that you do this by setting a dramatic ROLE-PLAY that spikes her emotions in ways that she’s never felt before:

“I felt much in such a little amount of time. He’s fucking with you I reminded myself. He went to europe and teases about coming to see me, being with me, but we only had one actual conversation the whole time he is gone. He says “I love you”…This stings a little. I feel this, but I won’t say it. Like every girl, I’ve been hurt to many times. He calls me insecure over it. This stings a little more. I feel red…Then blue. We fight. He doesn’t see where I’m coming from. Why is it always me to say hello first. I cared to much about wanting to hear his voice, see his face again, but all I ever got was “We’ll talk tomorrow.”

I lay here with no feeling left. I don’t know the right things to say anymore. All I wanted was to know him. Ahh…Listen to me. What am I doing. I let a guy get the best of me. Who jokes with someone they “love” about sleeping with other girls when they are apart.“

Every woman that I interact with experiences more heightened emotions with me than with any other guy that she’s ever met in the past or that she will ever meet in the future.

She laughs harder with me.

She cries harder with me.

She experiences more emotions overall with me and she loves me for it.

Because, ultimately no other man can offer her that!

Take a look around you again…

Everything is so bland!

Everything is so conditioned to fit into the mold of society.

Give her a chance to step out of all of that and give her a chance to actually experience something.

Now, an important thing to understand is that women KNOW that this is a ROLE-PLAY and that you don’t truly mean it.

If I approach and start interacting with a woman and after five minutes of meeting her I tell her that I love her, for example.

She KNOWS that I DON’T actually love her.

The expectations are always managed.

No girl is ever going to believe that you’ve just fell in love with her after having only talked to her for a few minutes but she wants to believe in it.

And that’s where the beauty of all of this lies.

You give her the opportunity of letting lose in the romantic fantasy as opposed of it just being another fun one night stand.

It’s the one night stand where she can add all of the emotional drama that she ever dreamed of adding to it and experience all of it risk free!


So to conclude this article, I really want you remember that this is something that you can ONLY do when you’ve gotten all of the core fundamentals of game handled in your life.

It will not work otherwise and trust me, you do not want to set this type of frame if you haven’t yet gotten all of that handled either.

Portraying yourself as the “provider” as opposed to portraying yourself as the “lover” is one of the worst things that you could ever do to yourself if you’re not a man who offers value by being self-actualized.

These are the types of situations you hear about where she will make you wait for months before sleeping with you and will never end up respecting you as man.

This is something that you can only do when the first two criteria are met in terms of what defines value.

Offer her value by being a self-actualized man and then offer her even more value by providing her with the emotions that she’s always dreamed of experiencing under the right circumstances that are of course risk-free.

She will love you for it.

PS: Let me know what you think of the video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future article!

PPS: Don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at as well!


United States
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA (Julien running day 2)
September 1, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA

September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Athens, Greece
February 23, 2013: Bucharest, Romania
March 2, 2013: Sofia, Bulgaria
March 23, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
March 30, 2013: Birmingham, United Kingdom

Australia & New Zealand
June 16, 2012: Auckland, New Zealand

August 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada

Latin America
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa


  1. Aron Campisano June 11, 2012 at 12:45 pm - Reply

    Going for the makeout with Kate Middleton? That masthead photo is next-level shit, Bro.

  2. Michael June 12, 2012 at 12:14 am - Reply

    Hey Julien,

    I have to admit…been checking this blog incessantly since you posted this video, knowing you approve every comment so you definitely read this shit. Personally…up till now I loved your core fundamentals of the game…and it was shocking….actually I was a bit…disappointed by what you revealed…it sucked at first. Then I realized something….by giving her these controlled range of emotions in a “controlled” environment (self actualization / freedom from outcome) ur truly allowing her to bask in good emotions in the form of ultimate ….tears…ultimate sadness…ultimate….whatever emotion without her being attached to it.

    I didn’t get how fingering the girl’s sister helped to give her “good emotions”….I’m very sure many girls would rip my dick off if I tried that…but there comes a point where I believe in the relationship…and correct me if im wrong…that outcome dependency/freedom from outcome changes. After all, relationship is give/take and …essentially an agreed…committed thing…

    then again..I’ve slept with girlfriends that have had boyfriends of 2+ years. All I know is my reality is fucked. You also fucked my reality by….convincing that girl to “fuck you for her boyfriend” but realistically, I think logistically she wanted to fuck you regardless….I know some girls that wouldn’t give two cents of a shit for you or me…and we know girls like this EXIST in terms of logistics you know. But in any case, her hitting you up in LA should have been a huge huge giveaway.

    Take care friend as always…and thanks for clearing this shit up….but I doubt I’ll be using this…this is too much freedom from outcome…LOL…

    Your broskee from another momskee,


  3. Dylan June 14, 2012 at 8:26 pm - Reply

    Awesome awesome post! Surprising at first yea, but great stuff.

    My thought process that followed was different than Michael’s though.

    It’s similar, but with a twist.

    Everyone lives once and life is fucking short. For a girl who lives off of emotions, the man who gives her that FULL RANGE OF EMOTIONS is really just helping her live life to the fucking fullest.

    Who wants to live a life of moderate emotion? Half-experience everything. Girls need the good with the bad too. There’s no fulfillment out of being the same content and happy ALL THE TIME.

    As guys, we just develop a resilience, a trust in ourselves. We’re rocks that weather the storm of emotions. Girls bask in them.

    Anyways, that’s my two cents.

    Julien you should upload that text you showed Tyler.

    • Julien June 19, 2012 at 1:22 pm - Reply

      Yeah, I completely agree with all of this.

      Spot on! ;)

  4. Dylan June 15, 2012 at 1:19 am - Reply

    Let’s see the mind-blowing text!!!!!

    • Julien June 19, 2012 at 1:21 pm - Reply

      Haha, I’m still hesitating about posting all of that up. We’ll see… ;)

  5. Qkish June 15, 2012 at 2:56 pm - Reply

    Please more examples and ways to create drama! :)

  6. Cid June 23, 2012 at 6:58 pm - Reply

    Is there any specific tricks to getting this level of energy and emotion with someone randomly on the street you meet? It seems to me people you meet on the street are more hesitant to this kind of energy because girls at the club are essentially there to be fucked, (at the very least: in the long run).

    Is there any signs aka “IOI” in the classic PUA terms for street game specifically?

    I’m basically looking for a way to find the connection on the street for this kind of emotional content. I find girls in clubs usually much inferior looking and have much less interesting energy to me than the girls I see on the street.

    Also, I remember Tyler once saying that street/day game is harder because you need a stronger base state setpoint.

    Do you or other instructors know a way to cultivate that kind of base statepoint? In clubs it’s easy to build momentum and on the street where I feel the most amazing females are it’s like a cage preventing the interaction from being as smooth as it could be.

  7. luis January 12, 2014 at 9:13 pm - Reply

    I´m still waiting that text….

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